“It’s so incredible to finally be understood.”

A year ago at a dinner party we all took this personality test – 16 Personalities (https://www.16personalities.com/) – and shared our personality type.

It was pretty accurate. It felt like a good description of who I was.

Over the last few years, as I’ve dated people or had significant people come into my life, I’ve asked them to take the test, so I could understand more about their personality type and how we interacted.

It’s been a very useful tool. It has helped me see where I am compatible with people and where we are incompatible.

I decided, spur of the moment, after a conversation with Philip Morgan of The Positioning Manual, to take it again.

I got a slightly different result this time (ENFJ “The Protagonist” to ENFP “The Campaigner”) and it is scary accurate.

I’m talking downright “Holy Shit” moments.

I read two paragraphs that described (perfectly) my romantic relationships since I was 18. I just sat there, neutral-faced 😐. saying “Yup.”

I want to see how accurate it is for you.

Here’s what they say about themselves:

“It’s so incredible to finally be understood.”

Take our Personality Test and get a ‘freakishly accurate’ description of who you are and why you do things the way you do.

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  1. Take the test
  2. Read through the analysis of your personality type. See how accurate it is.
  3. Hit reply to this email and tell me how accurate it was for you. Bonus points for sharing your personality type.




p.s., I landed on the Campaigner Personality, if you want to take a look: https://www.16personalities.com/enfp-personality